Harriette Cole: She drinks to have fun, and then the rest of us can’t

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 14:40:06 GMT

Harriette Cole: She drinks to have fun, and then the rest of us can’t DEAR HARRIETTE: I have a friend who did not start drinking until recently. She has no idea what her limits are and often exceeds them, leaving me and my other friends to take care of her at the end of the night.I try to suggest to her to slow down or stop drinking at a certain point, but she gets defensive with me and says that she just wants to have fun like everybody else. The issue is that when she gets too drunk, none of us have fun because we are worried about her, and she doesn’t realize that.Related ArticlesAdvice | Harriette Cole: How do I tell her there’s no way she could wear those clothes? Advice | Harriette Cole: My boyfriend and I fought about his plan to taunt my ex Advice | Harriette Cole: He refused to pull over, and her new car got damaged Advice | Harriette Cole: My former teacher tells stories about me that aren’t true Advice | Harriette Cole: I’m afraid my son made ...

Miss Manners: They got upset when I tried to step out of the photo

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 14:40:06 GMT

Miss Manners: They got upset when I tried to step out of the photo DEAR MISS MANNERS: Is there a polite way to decline to be photographed at parties and other private events?Not that anyone asks beforehand. I sometimes notice that I’m being snapped while in the midst of a friendly conversation at a host’s home, and people then post my photo on social media.Related ArticlesAdvice | Miss Manners: Our dinner guests said everything was fine. Obviously, it was not. Advice | Miss Manners: What I failed to teach my 5-year-old has become a problem Advice | Miss Manners: Why do they text me these boring pictures? Advice | Miss Manners: My party guest criticized my hosting to my face Advice | Miss Manners: Should I announce my tipping intentions upfront? I simply don’t want my photos to be on the internet. If I say, “Wait, let me step out of the photo,” it seems to cause a scene. People ask, “Why don’t you want your picture taken?” ...

Dear Abby: She dressed like a bride at the funeral, and things got worse from there

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 14:40:06 GMT

Dear Abby: She dressed like a bride at the funeral, and things got worse from there DEAR ABBY: I was never close to my late husband’s family. He had two half-siblings from his mother and seven from his father. (He was the only mutual child between them.)Related ArticlesAdvice | Dear Abby: My wife demands compensation for housework and sex Advice | Dear Abby: Should I tell her she crossed a line with her behavior toward my husband? Advice | Dear Abby: Must I consent to her odd hygiene requirements? Advice | Dear Abby: Our friendship ended badly. Should I discard his things that I still have? Advice | Dear Abby: I’ve reached my limit with this woman’s unprovoked attacks At his funeral, his half-sister on his mother’s side wore what appeared to be a white wedding dress and had her three daughters dressed like flower girls. She had threatened me often with violence and stalked me at my job. I got a protective order, but it took three filings to get it because her fat...

29,000+ military vets kicked out over sexuality denied honorable discharge

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 14:40:06 GMT

29,000+ military vets kicked out over sexuality denied honorable discharge Watch Video: LGBTQ+ veterans still fighting for honorable discharges toggle audio on and off change volume download audio CBS News Chief Investigative and Senior National Correspondent Jim Axelrod explains the biggest takeaways from the new figures detailing the scope of discrimination by the US military. $(function () { $('.wtop-audio-container .fa-play').on('click', function(){ var audio_filename = $('div.wtop-audio-file').data("mp3-url"); ga('send', 'event', 'Audio', 'play', audio_filename); }); }); New figures shared exclusively with CBS News are offering a detailed look at the scope of decades of discrimination by the...

‘Tutoring Corps’ to attack learning loss across Maryland

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 14:40:06 GMT

‘Tutoring Corps’ to attack learning loss across Maryland By next spring, Maryland hopes to have an army of 800 trained tutors helping up to 60,000 students in the initial phase of the Maryland Tutoring Corps program.The Maryland State Department of Education said the plan will harness $10 million in American Rescue Plan Funds to provide academic help to secondary students with a focus on math.Maryland State Superintendent of Schools Mohammed Choudhury explained in a Zoom call announcing the program that he wanted the focus on secondary math “because mathematics has taken a huge hit. We have single digits, for example, in our middle school proficiency rates.”The sense of urgency isn’t restricted to concerns about learning loss among secondary students, but Choudhury explained why the first phase of the tutoring program is focusing on secondary rather than elementary students.“We know that it gets harder to intervene as they grow at the higher grade level, so now’s the time to do it,” said Choudhury.He said the program would not require ext...

Pirates look to break 10-game losing streak, play the Marlins

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 14:40:06 GMT

Pirates look to break 10-game losing streak, play the Marlins Pittsburgh Pirates (34-40, fourth in the NL Central) vs. Miami Marlins (43-33, second in the NL East)Miami; Friday, 6:40 p.m. EDTPITCHING PROBABLES: Pirates: Luis Ortiz (1-3, 4.30 ERA, 1.73 WHIP, 26 strikeouts); Marlins: Jesus Luzardo (6-5, 4.09 ERA, 1.26 WHIP, 94 strikeouts)FANDUEL SPORTSBOOK MLB LINE: Marlins -175, Pirates +149; over/under is 8 runsBOTTOM LINE: The Pittsburgh Pirates, on a 10-game losing streak, take on the Miami Marlins.Miami has a 23-15 record in home games and a 43-33 record overall. The Marlins have gone 25-4 in games when they scored at least five runs.Pittsburgh has gone 16-21 in road games and 34-40 overall. The Pirates are 25-2 in games when they out-hit their opponents.The teams play Friday for the second time this season.TOP PERFORMERS: Jorge Soler leads the Marlins with 21 home runs while slugging .538. Luis Arraez is 16-for-43 with a home run and five RBI over the last 10 games.Andrew McCutchen has seven doubles and nine home runs for the Pirates. Brya...

Braves bring road win streak into matchup with the Reds

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 14:40:06 GMT

Braves bring road win streak into matchup with the Reds Atlanta Braves (48-26, first in the NL East) vs. Cincinnati Reds (40-35, first in the NL Central)Cincinnati; Friday, 6:40 p.m. EDTPITCHING PROBABLES: Braves: AJ Smith-Shawver (1-0, 2.03 ERA, .98 WHIP, 11 strikeouts); Reds: Luke Weaver (1-2, 6.47 ERA, 1.54 WHIP, 50 strikeouts)FANDUEL SPORTSBOOK MLB LINE: Braves -153, Reds +131; over/under is 10 1/2 runsBOTTOM LINE: The Atlanta Braves hit the road against the Cincinnati Reds aiming to prolong a four-game road winning streak.Cincinnati has a 40-35 record overall and a 20-18 record in home games. The Reds are 24-7 in games when they have more hits than their opponents.Atlanta has a 48-26 record overall and a 24-11 record in road games. The Braves have the top team slugging percentage in the majors at .477.Friday’s game is the fourth time these teams meet this season.TOP PERFORMERS: Jonathan India has 17 doubles, 10 home runs and 39 RBI for the Reds. Jake Fraley is 7-for-18 with a double, two home runs and seven RBI over the past 1...

Nationals visit the Padres to begin 3-game series

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 14:40:06 GMT

Nationals visit the Padres to begin 3-game series Washington Nationals (28-46, fifth in the NL East) vs. San Diego Padres (36-39, fourth in the NL West)San Diego; Friday, 9:40 p.m. EDTPITCHING PROBABLES: Nationals: Patrick Corbin (4-8, 4.89 ERA, 1.58 WHIP, 54 strikeouts); Padres: Joe Musgrove (5-2, 4.22 ERA, 1.31 WHIP, 48 strikeouts)FANDUEL SPORTSBOOK MLB LINE: Padres -277, Nationals +227; over/under is 8 runsBOTTOM LINE: The San Diego Padres host the Washington Nationals to open a three-game series.San Diego has a 36-39 record overall and a 19-20 record in home games. The Padres are 5-13 in games decided by one run.Washington has a 15-19 record on the road and a 28-46 record overall. The Nationals have a 17-36 record in games when they have allowed at least one home run.The matchup Friday is the fourth time these teams match up this season.TOP PERFORMERS: Juan Soto has 13 home runs, 67 walks and 37 RBI while hitting .268 for the Padres. Manny Machado is 13-for-40 with two doubles, three home runs and 11 RBI over the past 10 games....

Why some doctors stay in US states with restrictive abortion laws and others leave

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 14:40:06 GMT

Why some doctors stay in US states with restrictive abortion laws and others leave Dr. Kylie Cooper chokes up thinking about the patients she left behind in Idaho.One who often comes to mind is Kayla Smith.Smith said she chose to end a desperately wanted pregnancy last year after discovering her fetus had potentially deadly heart defects and other problems. But Idaho banned nearly all abortions after the U.S. Supreme Court overturned Roe v. Wade in June, so Smith had to go to Washington state. Cooper felt “deeply saddened” she couldn’t care for her the way she normally would have.And this is one of the reasons Cooper, a maternal-fetal specialist, moved in April to Minnesota, which has broad abortion rights.“Obviously it was a very difficult decision for me and my family,” she said. But they needed to be “where we felt that reproductive health care was protected and safe.”Post-Roe, many maternal care doctors in restrictive states face the same stark choice: Stay or go? They must weigh tough questions about medical ethics, their own families and whether they c...

Phillies begin 3-game series at home against the Mets

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 14:40:06 GMT

Phillies begin 3-game series at home against the Mets New York Mets (34-40, fourth in the NL East) vs. Philadelphia Phillies (38-36, third in the NL East)Philadelphia; Friday, 7:05 p.m. EDTPITCHING PROBABLES: Mets: Kodai Senga (6-4, 3.53 ERA, 1.33 WHIP, 87 strikeouts); Phillies: Taijuan Walker (7-3, 4.31 ERA, 1.28 WHIP, 66 strikeouts)FANDUEL SPORTSBOOK MLB LINE: Phillies -119, Mets +100; over/under is 9 1/2 runsBOTTOM LINE: The Philadelphia Phillies start a three-game series at home against the New York Mets on Friday.Philadelphia has gone 19-13 in home games and 38-36 overall. The Phillies are 13-6 in games when they did not give up a home run.New York is 34-40 overall and 17-25 in road games. The Mets have gone 23-14 in games when they scored five or more runs.The teams square off Friday for the fourth time this season.TOP PERFORMERS: Nicholas Castellanos has 23 doubles, a triple and eight home runs while hitting .311 for the Phillies. J.T. Realmuto is 11-for-36 with two doubles, two triples and three home runs over the past 10 games...